第一步:保证所有phone_number只有数字和 -
SELECT id,name,phone_number, REPLACE(phone_number,'-','') AS nw
FROM contacts
WHERE REPLACE(phone_number,'-','') REGEXP '^[0-9]+$'
第二步
SELECT id,name,phone_number
FROM (
SELECT id,name,phone_number, REPLACE(phone_number,'-','') AS nw
FROM contacts
WHERE REPLACE(phone_number,'-','') REGEXP '^[0-9]+$'
) a
WHERE (LENGTH(phone_number) = 10 OR phone_number LIKE '___-___-____')
AND phone_number NOT LIKE '0%'